I don’t understand why sometimes people won’t take compliments to heart. I am not saying that people should be prideful and always listen to compliments. I am saying that if someone thinks you are amazing, smart, and pretty… take them as they are. There are people who tend to take criticisms to heart and always telling themselves and other people how ugly or pathetic they feel. Let me tell you guys something…

It’s not true.

This world wants people to feel like they are not worth anything. The truth is that they are really worth something. They are so special and unique. I use to downgrade myself (and it’s hard to change the way I think about myself), but I learned that downgrading myself isn’t going to make people think Oh, she is prettier! or Oh, she is even more amazing! It is the confidence that makes people attractive. Of course, there is a thin line between being humble and prideful, but that’s for you to figure out where the line is.

My overall message is that you should change the way you look at yourself, because it will boost your self-confidence (makes you look even more amazing) and it will make you feel good about yourself.

You are beautiful, okay?

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